SACRAMENTO, Calif. (AP) 鈥� School districts in California would be barred from requiring teachers to notify parents if their child asks to go by a new pronoun at school under a bill the state Legislature is weighing amid legal battles over the rights of parents and gender-nonconforming students.
The state Senate approved the proposal Thursday, which would ban school districts from passing or enforcing policies requiring school staff to disclose a student's gender identity or sexual orientation to anyone else without the child's permission, with some exceptions. The goal is to protect students whose safety could be threatened if they live in unwelcoming households.
The issue is personal to Kai, a transgender man who recently graduated from high school within the Rocklin Unified School District near Sacramento and was treated for suicide attempts before coming out. He confided in a teacher 鈥渨ho had displayed her dedication and empathy toward all her students,鈥� Kai said at a news conference last month.
鈥淗aving a trusted adult is paramount to ensuring a queer kid makes it to their next birthday,鈥� he said. 鈥淚f you care about kids, you鈥檒l enact this legislation that will protect their well-being and protect their lives.鈥�
Lawmakers approved the legislation along party lines after more than an hour of an emotional debate in which Democratic LGBTQ+ senators recounted stories about how they delayed coming out to their parents or were outed by someone else. They argued gender-noncomforming students should be able to come out to their families on their own terms. But Republican lawmakers said the state shouldn鈥檛 dictate whether school districts can enforce so-called parental notification policies and that schools have an obligation to be transparent with parents.
It is part of a nationwide debate over local school districts and the rights of parents and LGBTQ+ students. States across the country have sought to , bar from girls and women鈥檚 sports, and require schools to 鈥渙ut鈥� trans and nonbinary students to their parents. Some lawmakers in other states have introduced bills in their legislatures with of any changes to their child鈥檚 emotional health or well-being.
Republican state Sen. Kelly Seyarto, who represents Murrieta in 麻豆传媒AVern California, said schools should increase transparency with parents by notifying them of their child's gender identification change.
鈥淚f we include the parents, that's the best way to take something from people being angry and mad to developing a solution that works for everybody,鈥� he said.
California officials shouldn鈥檛 prevent all parents from being notified because of the possibility that some parents may react badly, said Greg Burt, vice president of the California Family Council, a conservative Christian advocacy group.
鈥淵ou don鈥檛 assume that all parents are unsafe,鈥� Burt said. 鈥淭hat shouldn鈥檛 be the assumption.鈥�
The bill now heads to the state Assembly, where it would need to pass in committees and on the floor before it can reach the desk of Democratic Gov. Gavin Newsom, whose administration has fought school boards over the notification policies.
The debate over the policies is playing out in court cases across the state.
In August, Attorney General Rob Bonta, a Democrat, sued the Chino Valley Unified School District over the district鈥檚 notification rule, arguing it discriminated against gender-nonconforming students. A judge tentatively blocked parts of the policy, and the district later to apply more broadly to when a child requests any change to their student records.
But in a case involving the Escondido Union School District in 麻豆传媒AVern California, a judge tentatively ruled to prevent the district from reprimanding teachers for notifying parents about their child鈥檚 gender identification change.
State Sen. Caroline Menjivar, who is lesbian, said on the Senate floor Thursday that she was outed to her mother when Menjivar was 16 years old.
鈥淚 came home to literally all my things on the front lawn, because I was kicked out,鈥� the Democrat representing the San Fernando Valley said. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 what happens when parents don鈥檛 accept queer kids.鈥�
Menjivar then went back into the closet so that she could continue living at home, she said. She didn鈥檛 come out again to her mother until she was 25 years old. Her mother is still not accepting, Menjivar, now 35, said.
鈥淭here are many queer kids in California who have these stories,鈥� she said.
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The headline of this story has been updated to make clear that the measure approved by the Senate is a ban on requiring schools to notify parents of a child鈥檚 pronoun change,
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